Wednesday, June 14, 2006

Whisper Her Sweet Nothings.

It won't kill you to whisper sweet nothings into her ears with something that will make the earth move under her feet. She deserves it. Trust me. And you want to do this every day first thing in the morning when you see her busy in the kitchen fixing coffee.

Your missus deserves this whisper, man. She deserves it because it is THAT simple for some guy to come up to her and whisper something like, 'you are one gorgeous person' to make her weak in the knees and forget about you for a second or two before she comes to her senses.

Go ahead, whisper into her ears, blow her hair a little and give it your best shot with the golden voice. Go ahead, say it.

Say 'I love you.'

'I'm glad I married you.'

'How can anyone not fall in love with a sweet thing like you?'

'I can never get enough of you.'

Whisper sweet nothings to her, man. You gotta do this.

You gotta do this because trust me, man. All it takes for a guy out there is to say it first before you do. By then, it's too late. By then you can shout all you want but it will all come to nothing because all she needs to hear every now and then is a whisper from you.

A whisper is all it takes to keep the love between you burning. Just a whisper. It doesn't get any simpler than this.

Excuse me while I go find that special someone to whisper into her ears with;

'You're all I've got in this world...'


23 Comments:

Blogger torts said...

really, why can't most of the other men simply think?

;)

3:06 PM  
Blogger Ariel said...

You're so right, Bergen. Sometimes all women want is to hear the sweet nothings. It can make herday... it can lift her spirits..it tells her that she is loved. Sweet nothings are not nothing, they mean a whole lot to us. They should be called sweet everythings... :-)

3:07 PM  
Blogger AuntyN said...

It would definitely nice to hear sweet nothing being whispered to your ears :-).It would definitely be a bliss to hear them rather than :-)

*Awat la banyak isi sangat kat sini ni? *sambil cubit the spare tyre kat belakang tu * hehehe

Or

*Bila la nak kurus macam dulu masa mula2 jumpa tu?* Lagi cubit spare tyre tu *

But than again I won't trade these with any sweet nothing whispers from other women's hubby. Selilih malaikat 44 tu, Nauzubillah.

3:09 PM  
Blogger k.d said...

*Sigh*

If only the one girl knew about you..

3:58 PM  
Blogger thinktankgal said...

This is so sweet....

4:01 PM  
Blogger Adah said...

*sigh*

Romanticnye..this is just so sweet la bergen..but it's true. It's the little things that counts. The simple compliments and the sweet phrases. :)

4:07 PM  
Blogger tee said...

ermm... u're so true, sir... simple gesture like dat and the world is truly urs alone... :)

4:08 PM  
Blogger anedra said...

could I please introduce you to my N, so that you could teach him a thing or two? and tell him that it's actually absolutely VERY macho for a man to whisper sweet nothings to his wife every once in a while? can i? ;p

4:46 PM  
Blogger pu1pu3 said...

I'm lucky to have a hubby that does that.
You Go and make someone feel lucky too. Sure make a 'janda gatal' feel a lot more loved than being labelled such...
I'm sure the single mom is nothing of that sort. None of them were, to begin with.Kan?
Honestly, what were they thinking?

Apt post, as always.

5:35 PM  
Blogger Nazrah said...

sigh.

all i get is,

"yeeees, mommie?"


which might sound like he does not want to be disturbed if read like this, but to my ears it means,

"c'mere you...",

which is just about enough lah.

but wouldn't it be lovely eh, if men knew more than we do about what we might like and what kinda glorious places we would take them when they do.

5:37 PM  
Blogger Blabs said...

Read the whole string from the Mother's Day post up to the current. You are one heck of a noble dude, I'll give you that. Cheers.

5:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

when a man says that to me, i know he wants something in return. time and again, this is proven true.

6:00 PM  
Blogger anggerik merah said...

Read yr previous entry abt Ernest Hemingway. I studied him for my philosophy class many many years ago.

About this entry my expression is *smile*. It is very very true!

5:33 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

wow weeeeeee... u're really something, sir..
btw, I've just recently been reading ur blog and now it's one of my fave. keep it up!

8:41 AM  
Anonymous married with children said...

Yes bergen I agree with you. My hubby always does that..i know that i am not a beautiful princess,especially after having the children with spare tyres and all the cellulite but whenever he does that i know that he is still in love with me and i am still the apple of his eyes..A VERY BIG APPLE THOUGH..hahaha

9:37 AM  
Blogger podgykat said...

Hi Mr Bergen, nice site! I guess it's not only women who want to hear all these "sweet nothings"-guys do too. It's a basic human need to know that you are appreciated and loved by your partner. When you crave this attention from someone else, sometimes it's really a cry of help. Be gentle and conscious of her pain when you break it off-even though it's more her than you that's into "it" emotionally.Cheers.

9:42 AM  
Blogger Nour said...

you surely can read a woman's mind..yup, husbands should learn to appreciate their other half! It doesn't take much you know...

9:43 AM  
Blogger Kak Teh said...

It may be sweet nothings but it can certainly linger that silly smile all day long!

12:01 PM  
Anonymous kelly said...

bergen,

really you make me cry. been reading your blog since april.and it`s touchy...but sweet

12:05 PM  
Anonymous maklan said...

Most men are like that I presume...and you are one of them kan???

*wink*

2:36 PM  
Blogger Noni said...

Berg,
if zee laki whispers em sweet nuttings to me every day first thing in the morning then my students would remain untaught and ****** **** Berhad would go bankrupt... hehe... me likeeeee!!!!

4:08 PM  
Blogger Sayuti said...

i did that once and my wife said 'romantik sangatlah. tak biasa~'

*down*

8:37 PM  
Blogger Tasha said...

awwww thats so sweet! PIERRE ARE YOU STILL READING THIS!

10:45 AM  

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